Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man – How To Communicate

Taurus and ScorpioI was thinking the other day about how my relationship with my husband has progressed over the years and I thought of something that I would share that might help some of you out.

We have been together for almost 14 years now, and have had lots of ups and downs.  Some really good arguments and lots of great laughs.  What I was thinking about was how our communication has evolved over the years and it wasn’t until just recently that I started changing things up a bit when it came to conflict and how I handled it.

Paul and I can both be very stubborn people.  For those of you that follow astrology, I am a Taurus and he is a Scorpio.  This makes for a very interesting dynamic when it comes to how we communicate and resolve our differences.  🙂  Things can get very heated!  We both don’t like to give in or compromise either…or even admit wrong doing.

So, what made me decide to change things up?  Well, I was speaking to one of my very wise mentors, Tamara about how frustrated I was becoming with certain things in our relationship and she gave me some really good advice.

She stopped me dead in the middle of my rant and asked me, “What energy are you going into this discussion with him with?”  I think I just stared at her for a few seconds, and then said, “Huh?”  She asked the same question again and at first I really didn’t understand where she was going with this line of questioning.  🙂  She then started to explain to me what she meant.

If I go into his space with pissed off, frustrated energy and want to discuss something that has made me angry, the energy I am taking into this discussion is negative, angry energy and the outcome of what I want to discuss will more than likely be something I don’t want it to be.

If I change my energy, and make it calm and open to discussion, the outcome of the discussion will be completely different.  He won’t instantly feel defensive or angry right off the bat and will be open to talking about what I am feeling, rather than shutting me down.

Her advice made sense, but did it really work?  Could I do this?  Sure, after some practice at it!

I can tell you that it does work, that in fact, it makes the communication so much easier.  When I go into a situation with an energy of love and caring rather than from an energy of anger and frustration, the situation is so much different.  A lot of the time, I am able to help him understand my point of view and he is able to express that he understands how I am feeling and we can then come to some sort of agreement or compromise.

So, I guess what I am getting at is that the next time you decide to have an argument with your loved one, try to step back and take a time out.  Take the time to become aware of the energy you are going into the situation with and decide what you would like your outcome to be.  Make the effort to communicate from a positive state rather than a negative one.  You will be glad you did!

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7 Responses to “Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man – How To Communicate”

  • Alicia:

    Great post Drea!! It makes a WORLD of difference if you are able to step back and assess your energy, especially when things are getting heated. Sometimes I have a hard time being able to take that step back before it’s too late though….Any advice? I am trying to make myself more aware, and with practice it is getting easier. Again, great post!

    -Alicia

    • Drea:

      Alicia,

      For me, it helps to be aware of my energy and what I am feeling on a continuous basis. This way I can asses how I am feeling and what I am reacting to before it becomes an issue. If I am reacting to something, I am able to stop and think about what it is I am reacting to and why.

      I can then deal with the situation using an energy that is more constructive to solving the issue at hand.

      Hope this helps!
      🙂

  • Isn’t that obvious thing for you Drea? Oh my, well – that’s pretty much how it looks like, all this energy exchange during argument. Funny – Annette is Taurus, I’m Scorpio – but we never had such arguments, really – guess I can maintain my energy field well.
    .-= Nathan´s last blog ..What preparing of scrambled eggs can teach you about psychic development =-.

    • Drea:

      Nathan, yep…it is very obvious for me now for sure!

      Not so much when I was younger, as we have been together for a long time! When writing this post I was giving more of an overview of the years past rather than more recent years. 🙂

      As much as you are experienced with energy, I’m thinking this post might be a great reminder for you if you do happen to clash a little with your Taurus!
      😉

  • Lara:

    Drea I can completely relate to your post. Having grown up in a family that often reacts to conflict rather than first reflects it was a huge adjustment learning to communicate with my husband (Taurus vs Aquarius). He comes from a family that is very calm and didn’t shout at each other verses my family who was very passionate and often wore our emotions on our sleeves. We would react without first reflecting and often comments would flying out of our mouths before we even thought twice about them. It caused a lot of regret and remorse afterward and would sometimes leave scars. I have learned to find some middle ground with my husband. I have had to retrain myself. I don’t shout, I sometimes have to put things in the “parking lot” until I have calmed down and can discuss how and why I feel the way I do. It’s still a struggle sometimes but I am learning and I regret a lot less.

    Thank you for sharing something so personal and honest.

    • Drea:

      Lara,

      I’m glad you liked this post! What I think is great about practicing this type of energy exchange is seeing the other person you are communicating with open up and want to communicate rather than shut down and not listen to what you have to say. 🙂

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